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Tune In.

acres of diamonds. Are you tuned in to who you are or are you fighting against life?

Years ago, before this Matis Fourways journey, I had a business coach who taught me some life lessons I couldn’t possibly fully appreciate at the time.  Still, that didn’t stop me from using the mind blowing, spirit lifting, vision creating words of Earl Nightingale talking about those acres of diamonds, & how we should keep mining what’s in front of us. Those lessons are knocking hard & pulling me into a new, yet vintagely familiar soft place. I never quite understood the fullness of the information I had, I taught, I browsed over… never really understood
Now, a question arises from all this new familiarity. Why do we think we should be somewhere else to be really happy? A different job, a different life; why is it easier running after something new instead of creating the life we want?

I spent years unknowingly fighting. I fought a pain I made part of my identity, I fought myself, I fought through difficulties and stress, then one day (long story short) I finally completely understood Romans 12:2.

Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.
Romans 12:2

What if we were able to reframe the way we move through life? What if, instead of spiralling at the slightest inconvenience, we paused and chose allowance? – to rest in the fact that we are safe and divinely protected. What if we could try to show ourselves the grace, softness and benevolence we would to a helpless child? Why are we more wired for  harshness? & how do we start changing that?

Our mind is our most precious possession. There are discoveries that continuously challenge what we previously believed, starting with one weirdo that dared to think “outside the box”
I feel much like the disciples that were building at the Jordan, standing between what was and where I’m going, and for the 1st time in a very long time I acknowledge how much mining there is to do.

I’ve had a revelation about people and the necessity of personal development. Surely its importance has never been adequately expressed.
As some awaken to the inevitabilities of life, others continue their lives with blame, anger and hurt. While some seem to aquire a stillness and acceptance of self and others, others aren’t yet able to see the mind, body and emotions as our 3 in 1 body.

We change, evolve, learn and unlearn; how are we making sure we’re being honest in these endeavours? How are we taking steps toward betterment? I’ve changed. I’ve journeyed deep, I’ve had so many years of tears, and now I’m continuously in awe of my spiritual awakening, an unspoken knowing that I am tuned into myself and the frequency of life.
No, I don’t think the depressed, anxious, burnt out,  me is a thing of the past, I have just stopped shouting at her and opted for more loving and understanding measures.

I have fallen deeply in love with myself and it’s changed my life.
I am unapologetic about me, & I’m doing so loudly!
When you decide to place yourself at the top of your priority list and begin to marvel at God’s creation, know that life as you know it is bound to pivot. Leave space. Allow.

The people who love seeing you glow and grow will cheer you on. Lovingly set boundaries with those who can’t.

And above all else, keep mining.
Those acres of diamonds may be far closer than you think. ⛏️💎

Laurien Erin

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Ready, Set, G(l)o

Isn’t is just absolutely discourteous of time to just keep ticking weather we’re ready or not? I mean, what’s the rush? Wasn’t I just telling all our clients how excited we were for a little break? Well… here we are back at it, ready or not  🤣

Thank God we have the best clients on the face of God’s green earth & we can all get ready while adulting as best we can for now.

Those of you who know me, know very well that I am not a New Years’ resolutions typa gal, I find it stresses me out, & I have tremendous guilt when I have no interest in following through after Jan. I think I said something similar in a Jan blog a year or 4 ago… I however have a few goals for 2025. They include getting a tighter butt, ageing backwards & remaining as chilled as possible! Stress is making us age & I declare it cannot be such a big part of life in 2025! So if you see me looking anything but chilled & young when you walk into the salon, fell free to send me home immediately.

This month’s promos were designed with my 2025 goals in mind, buy 1 get 1 free massage & free foot massage with a facial is, according to me, the most stress free way of stepping into the new year.

So, ready, set GLOW/Go into 2025 with my prayers for a calm, healthy, hydrated, stress free, abundant year for us all!

Much Love, Laurien

 

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This chapter is called…?

It’s time to put manicured nail to qwerty again. My mental demanded a break, and yet being back feels better than ever. Once again I’m reminded of the therapy this part of my job is, how grateful I am to be able to do so many of the things I really love. More than ever I realise how fortunate I am to do what I have loved for over 20 years, & how blessed I am to have clients who actually want to hear me wag my chin about the symphony of texture, aroma & results that is Matis.

I went for my laser hair removal this week @ https://satoribeautyandwellness.co.za/  (I do LOVE barter…) & my gorgeous, oh so fabulous friend Hayley gave me possibly the biggest compliment I have ever received. She told me how happy she is for me,  looking at where my life is now🥰 ; not so long ago I felt like nothing was going right. Frustrated with stagnation, overwhelmed with the mountain that is my degree, stressed, exhausted, aching; completely missing the essence of me.

I can point to a week, maybe even a few moments when I felt a shift in my spirit, a time when my head & heart decided on the same dance, switching between lead and follow, and finally the darkness lifted & just like that… all the pieces (I didn’t even know were missing) fell together. So many contributing factors and so many hearts play a critical role in the story that is my life & to all you treasures, Thank You!

The past month or two we have seen more people concerned with ageing than I can remember! We’ve seen more clients change to anti-age serums, and more clients expand their homecare routines. Our data shows a definite upward trend in more anti-age skincare treatments & we’re here for it! With the sun finally out to play after it’s little tantrum last week, I feel it’s the best time to celebrate ageing gracefully, AND taking it up a notch with our skincare. I can honestly say that I am obsessed with how fantastic my skincare is at the minute, I’ve introduced the Densifiance serum & the Caviar cream; the level of bliss I am experiencing on a daily in front of my bathroom mirror is positively life changing. My dedication to treat my neck & hands more specifically is a true representation of “over 40” 🤦🏽‍♀️I would be THRILLED to talk more about this is you catch me at the salon 😉

I am so excited to focus this month’s promos on anti-ageing, weather you’re 30, 40 or 70, we all would love to age more gracefully so let’s start right now!

I know, we’re speeding toward that dreaded time of year where everyone is grumpy, there are more bad days, your tired is tired & even if you plan to do Christmas shopping early, you very well may find yourself short tempered and frustrated on the 24th of December. Some things don’t change. What I can confidently say is, that 5 minutes with your skin at the end of each day works just like a plaster on your 5 year old’s knee. 😉 It’s also what your skin needs.

EASE:

If you do something with ease, you do it easily, without difficulty

to make or become less severe, difficult, unpleasant, painful

What would this chapter of my life be called? “Ease”, not because it’s easy, but because I want to squeeze as much ease into each day I can. Because I will choose to only take on only what I can, to unapologetically take a step back when frustration and unnecessary difficulty are the grey clouds and heavy stones that make the way forward an uphill battle, and possibly most importantly, I want to show the people in my life that “with ease” is the only way to handle me. I promise to check-in with myself whenever necessary, to make sure I remain firmly seated in my unapologetic femininity. Being the adultiest adult in many areas of my life for longer than I’d liked, has cultivated a woman who craves ease like never before.

Here’s to an October full of anti-age habits; minds, hearts & spirits that are calm & full of ease. Who’s with me?