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Tune In.

acres of diamonds. Are you tuned in to who you are or are you fighting against life?

Years ago, before this Matis Fourways journey, I had a business coach who taught me some life lessons I couldn’t possibly fully appreciate at the time.  Still, that didn’t stop me from using the mind blowing, spirit lifting, vision creating words of Earl Nightingale talking about those acres of diamonds, & how we should keep mining what’s in front of us. Those lessons are knocking hard & pulling me into a new, yet vintagely familiar soft place. I never quite understood the fullness of the information I had, I taught, I browsed over… never really understood
Now, a question arises from all this new familiarity. Why do we think we should be somewhere else to be really happy? A different job, a different life; why is it easier running after something new instead of creating the life we want?

I spent years unknowingly fighting. I fought a pain I made part of my identity, I fought myself, I fought through difficulties and stress, then one day (long story short) I finally completely understood Romans 12:2.

Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.
Romans 12:2

What if we were able to reframe the way we move through life? What if, instead of spiralling at the slightest inconvenience, we paused and chose allowance? – to rest in the fact that we are safe and divinely protected. What if we could try to show ourselves the grace, softness and benevolence we would to a helpless child? Why are we more wired for  harshness? & how do we start changing that?

Our mind is our most precious possession. There are discoveries that continuously challenge what we previously believed, starting with one weirdo that dared to think “outside the box”
I feel much like the disciples that were building at the Jordan, standing between what was and where I’m going, and for the 1st time in a very long time I acknowledge how much mining there is to do.

I’ve had a revelation about people and the necessity of personal development. Surely its importance has never been adequately expressed.
As some awaken to the inevitabilities of life, others continue their lives with blame, anger and hurt. While some seem to aquire a stillness and acceptance of self and others, others aren’t yet able to see the mind, body and emotions as our 3 in 1 body.

We change, evolve, learn and unlearn; how are we making sure we’re being honest in these endeavours? How are we taking steps toward betterment? I’ve changed. I’ve journeyed deep, I’ve had so many years of tears, and now I’m continuously in awe of my spiritual awakening, an unspoken knowing that I am tuned into myself and the frequency of life.
No, I don’t think the depressed, anxious, burnt out,  me is a thing of the past, I have just stopped shouting at her and opted for more loving and understanding measures.

I have fallen deeply in love with myself and it’s changed my life.
I am unapologetic about me, & I’m doing so loudly!
When you decide to place yourself at the top of your priority list and begin to marvel at God’s creation, know that life as you know it is bound to pivot. Leave space. Allow.

The people who love seeing you glow and grow will cheer you on. Lovingly set boundaries with those who can’t.

And above all else, keep mining.
Those acres of diamonds may be far closer than you think. ⛏️💎

Laurien Erin

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This is the end.

With brain fog & not enough sleep the time has come. This is the end (almost)…

It’s the time of year when all the crazy, tired, & lack of patience is exposed. The time when getting to work feels like an extreme sport, & the holidays are so close yet so far away. That strange time of year when Halloween & Christmas decorations overlap in a rather disturbing way,  when the mixed feelings of seeing family causes us more stress than it should, & we day dream about reaching the year’s finish line with all our faculties intact (hopefully 😂), when we can really exhale & delare – this is finally the end of the year!

Since the chances of me doing a December blog are slim to none, I thought this would be the best time for a wee little reflection & a humble request. 2025 has been a whole lotof ALOT for many of us- some would say quite like being awake during an ex lap (an open abdominal explorative surgery)

This week a friend of mine lost her sister who was just 4 months older than I am.  A short while ago one of my closest friends lost her partner of 3+ years to a freak accident, he was here the one day & gone the next. A few months ago one of my staff members lost their sister, & before that the other lost a sister & brother – all taken too soon.

The news is full of sadness & corruption, life has become a fight in many cases & different ways. My request is that we all take a moment before we enter 2026 to self reflect, to maybe soften just a little, to perhaps try to show more love & appreciation to ourselves and our loved ones. To exercise more patience with ourselves & others. People are important & time is fleeting.

Let’s be awake to take in the precious memories, moments in time that time cannot steal from us.

Yes, we’re busy, tired, overworked, need more money, upset over something silly. In the greater scheme of things, are we going to allow the challenges of life to steal from the living we have left?

People are important, and time… time is fleeting.

As we all claw closer to the end of 2025, hoping & praying for ease, relief, change, and many other things; maybe what we haven’t realised is that this ease, relief, change and other things are developed in the moment to moment, in the day to day.

From me to all of you – make time for yourself, love loudly AND keep those healthy boundaries intact. Give yourself all the love, gifts, downtime that you wish for the people you love the most – we can help a little with some of that 💆🏻👌🏻

I love you all!

Laurien Erin 

 

 

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What soothes you?

Hi, I’m Laurien and I’m a procrastinator. 🤦🏽‍♀️I have a growing talent for leaving things to the very last minute, and the May blog has been a prime example.

Putting my head in the sand when I don’t feel like facing a task is fast becoming a hobby, when I should in fact, be getting more task orientated!

May really isn’t a favourite month to write my thoughts to be honest. May = Mothers’ day, &  is a tricky one for me – the past few years have been interesting to navigate. A word for the younger generation, don’t be so keen to declare that you don’t want kids; one day you wake up 35 & fall in love with some lil people & discover you had all the maternal bones all along 🫢

April is our birthday month (the shop & I ) & just as I’m getting settled into the new age, May peeps her motherly head around the corner to remind me of my womb that no-one has called home yet. – RUDE-

I was relaxing, walking, eating, dancing & drinking on a wine farm in Cpt for a few days, & I didn’t feel the urge to rush back from the beach to write this blog – It’s the honesty for me!

The past few days I’ve sat with some thoughts; are we experiencing more of the same in different ways? I took another bash at a dating site recently, I’ve always known my S.O wouldn’t be found there, but I was admittedly without entertainment… until I saw my (not single) cousin’s profile & proceeded to delete it, yet again! As I stared at the familiar pictures, I couldn’t help but wonder… am I existing in a time not meant for me?
Fam! Carrie Bradshaw lifts my spirits- even in the 90s, things were much the same with the exception of fake profiles & way too much social media, what is it about relatability that settles the spirit?

 

When all the frozen yoghurt & SATC reruns fail to hit the spot, my next best is my Good mood in jars, conveniently found in my bathroom cabinet.

The slight sagging of cheeks (& heart) are made well with the floating fingers over my face, the aroma that behaves like I’d imagine the balm of Gilead did. The meticulously crafted texture has a way of softening my mind. Bliss!

Look, it won’t change things around me, but it somehow changes me, slightly shifting my view, my mood; it sings me a lullaby with the promise of of a better tomorrow.